Taking “no” for an answer is something I’ve become more passionate about since the last time I ever wrote about it. It’ll take time to find it, but once I do I’ll hyperlink it right here.

To not take someone’s “no” and risk guilting, bullying, or threatening them into a “yes” shows a great amount of disrespect towards you. Being questioned until their desired answer is gained is just as bad or worse.

If you’re like me, who ends up doing a thing and only then be told “I love you” afterwards, your definition of love is heavily redefined. One that does not mimic their habits onto others we would genuinely care for.

Also one that doesn’t respect their beliefs, if not them as a whole. No matter who they are.

These people also have a habit of getting revenge on you for defying their cries. Either directly, or with help from their loyalists. People who may even have their own reasons to be reluctant allies. That’s not your fight, though.

Stand your ground against all of them. Continue the cutoffs however you can. By all means, do not give into the words from others that openly take their side. They see you just as disrespectfully as the people they support always do.

Your respect for yourself matters more than any way they view you. Whether it’s felt in silence, distance, or both, never stop choosing yourself over anyone.

D.F.
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