How many people do you know that will use money to bribe people into doing things they’re tired of doing for the giver? How long does it take for the giver to get a clue about you’re not for sale, or rent?

Naturally, this has been a recurring event for me. While money is important, it’s not always worth your comfort and time needed to (re)build your life, on or off the clock.

No matter who this person is, or even people that are doing this in your life, it’s your choice. Either take what they give and use it towards your own goals, or use more time to make yourself comfortable over others.

You can even find a steady balance between the two. State your limited availability, and stand firm on it unless it’s an emergency. Not everyone will honor these right away, or at all, but you’ll be better for establishing them.

If nothing else, it’ll be a warm-up for the next time anyone tries the same. Someone that’s easier to distance yourself from, if not cut off completely.

At least then, you can look back and melodramatically say “I’ve been waiting for you!” 😉

D.F.