(Originally written Feb/2023)

As essential as money is for basic living expenses and more, there will always be people ready to abuse its presence as a weapon in their narcissistic armory. Fitting description for something that falls in the “love bombing” subcategory of narcs.

When you’re in a position where close people can “gift” it to you at the risk of guilt tripping you about it later, it makes you appreciate any sources you earn much more. Especially if you’re doing it privately.

Even if you have a livable amount of wealth, they’ll weasel their way into becoming an additional resource. All going back to the points I mentioned above.

The dramatic hold some people have about money is sad, sadder when you treat loved ones more like piggybanks. It’s one thing to ask for help or receive payment for acts of service, but the world would be a better place if we gave greater attention to our mental health than anyone else’s wallets.

D.F.