Imposter Syndrome, if not recognized as that, can be the end of so many dreams becoming reality.

The National Library of Medicine describes imposter syndrome as “…a behavioral health phenomenon described as self-doubt of intellect, skills, or accomplishments among high-achieving individuals.”

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve fallen into that. Some ways, I still do. It’s not fun to realize you’ve sold yourself short, long after you’ve left a room you were meant to be in because of your skills.

Even when I recognize I’ve done it again, I do my best to give myself the pep talk to celebrate yourself. Let them know that even if I’m a novice in comparison, it’s my uniqueness that will help me stand out more than I did before.

I’ve gotten better at not talking about what I don’t have, and instead celebrate that I’ve been doing something I’m passionate about, while being with others that may appreciate talking with someone fresh in their field.

But it’s also up to me to do what’s necessary to get in those rooms and events. Whether it’s by research or invites, I know what work I’ve put into my favorite things to discuss and focus on.

More people are noticing, and as of writing this line, I love it.

Mel Robbins once said something on the lines of “you only feel imposter syndrome in situations that you care about.” And the places I enjoyed that I talked myself down in, or even out of showing up to, were based on caring what other people thought, or would think of even showing (continued) interest in them.

Not so much, anymore.

But as far as this mental health journey goes, along with other plans to grow in this industry, I can’t act like I’m a novice in it again, or at all.

I will, however, hold the title of an eternal student in everything that interests me. There’s no faking that.

D.F.