I’ve seen it said multiple ways that any circumstances that are undesirable to you are not your final destination. It rings true to what I mentioned last week. Even truer when you’ve begun or have already been setting yourself on a journey most others would neglect worth going on.
Or even confirm it’s one that even exists.
Many will try to keep you weak, often speak weakness into you. The ones that have years of success at it always will. There’s no convincing them otherwise. And if there is, they’ll find a way around it.
They’d rather strengthen themselves over you.
That behavior’s been in me, too. Talking down people that are enjoying themselves in unharmful behavior. Interrogating them about their positive announcements, thankfully not going as far as others have.
Even now, I’m still making sure that I’m not echoing those old ways that were pushed, and sometimes still pushed on me. As if I should quit and follow the generational curse as ordered.
Not anymore. And not for a long time, to my memory.
If anything, I’ve become stronger in how to remain the opposite. It’s been beneficial to my years of connecting and reconnecting with people that deserve praise for anything they’re doing.
That pure type of praise that’s not followed by any social and familial toxins.
It’s a great life when you’re giving others the strength that you wished you had in times you were emotionally fatigued. It’s even better when you’ve giving others that strength based on the one your found in yourself, in spite of your surroundings.
Never stop doing it. You’re needed here.