Have you ever found yourself caught between other people’s problems? Specifically ones that you may have even minimal connection to?

And this isn’t always a moment where you step into a situation you know is bad. I also mean the ones where someone comes to you and gives you detailed reasons you shouldn’t talk to another person you’re connected to.

Sometimes things aren’t your business, even when you know someone is wrong once you know the full story. Other times, action should be taken on the person wishing to have you join the ranks of being anti-player 2. Even more if what they’re saying about P2 is like what’s been said about them at some point.

The world is messy enough for people who are trying to live through their own drama. Someone attempting to drag you into their own, regardless if they know you personally or not, is not always a great idea, either. It can be worse if they give you the old “join me or lose me” talk, to which sometimes it’s worth cutting them off anyway, if ultimatums are going to be are on the table.

Take your time in choosing whose side you’ll take in any situation thrown on you. Even if you choose your own side just to remain at some peace with the multiples involved, your reasons can remain yours. If they demand a reason after that, do what you have to in order to protect your peace. You may earn a new enemy, but your dignity is top priority.

D.F.

PS, Pardon the lateness.